Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Stop The Drama

Lately I feel like I've been getting caught in a lot of drama. I'm not one of those people that enjoy sitting around gossiping & complaining about people. I think that's why I've always found it easier to just hang out with the guys, talk about sports and crack jokes.

Lately however, I've gotten thrown into the middle of a lot of crap. I try not to get upset and sucked into it...but it's hard. I even started breaking out! That's when I said, "Zit's is where I draw the line!"

So yesterday I decided to stop adding fuel to the fire by joining in. I made a decision to take the high road. I sent out an email to everyone explaining a few things that I knew they probably didn't want to hear. But the bottom line is, everyone can sit around complaining, talking about each other and getting mad, but at the end of the day nothing's changed except making a lot of people bitter and angry towards each other.

My email was very nice but made a point. I received a couple positive feedbacks thanking me for putting it out there in a nice way. Tonight we have a team dinner...we'll see if anythings changed. I definitely will stick to my plan. I might get excluded because of it, but I will feel less stressed and better about myself for not joining in not to mention...maybe my face will clear up before the weekend! Gosh...being a girl sucks sometimes...we are all SO DRAMA!!


Twincerely,Olga said...

good for you!!I can't wait to hear how it goes!

April said...

Keep us posted! Lots of drama here too! Yuck!

gaelikaa said...

Good on you Lisa! You did well!

Widge said...

hi1 just found you on SITS.

yeah breakouts totally suck. i'm a fellow victim of these nasties...suck thing is I've started getting crows feet and the odd grey hair too!! so unfair

Fruitful Vine2 said...

Growing up I preferred to have guy friends because of the lack of drama. Now I'm an adult I have a few girlfriends but they are drama free(at least with me:) ).

Have a great day.

MelRoXx said...

nice post!

JaelCustomDesigns said...

Popping in from SITS! Great Post!
I don't do drama either!

I will leave someone talking to themselves once drama rears it's ugly head!

KC Mom said...

I know!
And I have 3 daughters so the drama monster rears his ugly head at least once a day at our house!

StacyB said...

Well, I'm lost. What the heck is going on? You know I love you!